Before parents can be successful in leading their families, they must first be able to lead
themselves. Moms and dads, who have a desire to lead well, often find themselves in situations of distress and disillusionment. Early on the goals for their kids are realistic and reachable, but they fall short during the implementation stage. It’s so difficult for parents to decide and act with clarity in all situations. In addition, maintaining one’s emotional balance and acting with sustained moral courage in every situation is almost impossible. Leading a family is not for the weak at heart. And, the world we live in doesn’t make it any better. What then, are we to do? How can we successful begin to lead our family well? Here are some great thoughts to get you moving in the right direction: Lead by Example: Live the way you want your children to live. Trust God. Treat others with respect. Respect Authorities. Make wise choices. Portray a strong work ethic. Work with your spouse or other parent: Communicate with one another about the direction you want your kids to take. Don’t make all the decisions on your own. Lead like a Servant: Put the needs of the family before your own. Especially your personal “wants.” Look for things you can do to help other family members. Lead with Humility: Look for ways to fulfill the mission for the family and keep in mind that you are a “team” leader, not the “star of the show.” Think Morally and Ethically: Right thinking is the best thinking. Right living is the best living. Learn how to be Better: Seeking out new solutions to challenges and problems can become a family affair. Always look for ways to improve, innovate, revise and refresh. Lead with Courage: Be willing to take a stand when needed. Taking a stand comes at a cost, but also with rewards. Lead with an Open Heart and Mind: Who knows, someone besides you might be the one that’s right from time to time. Lead knowing that if you don’t take the lead Someone else will: There’s a lot of people in this world that will be glad to take the leadership reigns of your family if you choose to allow it. This is a really scary thought … just saying. Lead from your Knees: If you want the help of the most powerful being in the universe, I would suggest that you PRAY. And, don’t wait until there’s some family emergency. Pray for your family members today and everyday. How about now? God will hear every word. Blessings on you as you choose to lead your family well. Ric Callahan
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AuthorRic Callahan has served the Church as minister to youth, children, and families for 37 years. He and his wife, Carla, have a passion for motivating and encouraging parents to activiely pursue Godly leadership in their homes. They have raised two daughters who use their gifts in minsitry as well. Archives
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